
I was talking recently to a lawyer friend about writing blogs. He was saying how he dreaded his turn coming round to write the weekly corporate post. It wasn’t the writing of it he disliked – he actually quite enjoyed that bit. It was pressing the ‘Publish’ button and putting it out there for the world to see that was the source of his anxiety. In his words, it made him feel both exposed and like he was losing control of it.
I can see what he means. Looking at the exposure element first, even now, in an age of rolling social media updates it’s not unreasonable to feel self-conscious when you’re posting an article online. After all, a professional article presented to your peers on a key industry topic is a world away from an Instagram post of your French bulldog eating avocado on toast.
You want it to read well, to be factually correct and to make a clear point. It sounds obvious but the way to do this is to verify your facts and sources, circulate it to your colleagues (junior and senior) for feedback before publishing and make any amendments accordingly. This isn’t just common sense and professional good practice, it will improve your blogging confidence too.
Once you’ve done that, it’s time to let go of the angst. But that’s easier said than done and communications people like me should share some of the blame. For example, I’m always telling clients that understanding your audience is the most important part of communications, which is true. But on the other hand, I wouldn’t want them to be so scared of the audience, so paralysed by stage fright, that they can’t communicate effectively.
Tips from a teenage diarist
The popular podcast ‘Berkhamsted Revisited’ sees two women in their 20s look back at their teenage diaries, discussing them in all their cringeworthy detail. It doesn’t get any more exposing than that. Laura Kirk, one of the presenters, explains how she deals with it:
“It freaked me out a bit to start off with, and I had a couple of wobbles when I first started recording them…. I’m normally very cautious, but eventually thought what’s the worst that could happen? Since then I’ve gone all guns blazing.”
It’s admittedly an extreme example but you get the point. And it’s worked for them – the third series started a couple of weeks ago.
What’s also interesting about this chronicle of two girls’ awkward teenage years is that most of its listeners are men – roughly a 70/30 male-to-female ratio. And this links it to my anxious legal friend’s second problem – that of losing control. Part of the point of putting your message, or blog, or podcast out into the world, I told him, is that you do relinquish control of it. In the case of the girls of Berkhamsted Revisited, they might never have predicted they would find such success with a male audience but I’m sure they have welcomed them all the same.
You might ask… but isn’t PR all about control? Well, yes and no. Good PR and comms is about controlling what’s in your power but acknowledging that you can’t control everything. Managing the expectations of your client or employer on this can be a big part of a comms professional’s role. (I’ve worked for in-house PR teams where corporate management have been surprised when they don’t see a press release go straight into the pages of a newspaper verbatim. Unless you’re Kim Jong-un’s press guy, that’s never going to happen.)
Any communication is always a compromise between what you say and how it’s received by the audience. Otherwise you’re just talking to yourself. Once you’ve done everything in your power, you just have to take the leap. Have confidence. Press publish. Put it out there. Accept that it might take on a life of its own, and that that might not be a bad thing.




